
Ruth is very much a creature of habit, borne of frustration with the world which she has felt has dealt her a tough hand. She’s been disappointed by her sister, her late husband, and her general life circumstances, and she’s just now managing to make the best of it by caring for a few young children in the neighborhood whom she enjoys quite a lot. Children, she finds, are honest, kind, and respond well to her “old-fashioned,” rules-driven manner. But suddenly, when she receives a shocking call from her sister asking for a favor, her world is turned upside-down. Ruth is forced to come to terms with her difficult past and perhaps make some changes that will affect both her present and her future.
This is a completely endearing novel that will engage you right from the start, pull at your heartstrings, and bring you joy. It is written with such tenderness, even when Ruth is stewing in resentment, or immobilized by inertia. We see that she is stuck but we also feel empathy for her. Life has thrown her curve balls, one after the other. But now, it appears, she is suddenly coming into her own.
I believe the lesson here is that while it may seem as if the other (here, Ruth’s sister) may have the “perfect” life, the grass truly isn’t always greener, so to speak. One never knows what goes on behind closed doors, we can never know what is going on in another person’s life or mind. The nicest house, the most glamorous career, the most beautiful, “picture-perfect” family – might inspire jealousy, but may not be what they appear to be. On the other hand, others who may appear on the outside to have difficulties or challenges, may actually be the most content.
This is a lovely novel, enriching, beautifully written and with a lovely message. I highly recommend it!