Same As it Ever Was by Claire Lombardo

Julia has found an equilibrium with her life as it is now. Yes, her daughter treats her with disdain, but isn’t that how every adolescent treats their mother? And while her son is always sweet to her, he has been somewhat distant lately. But at least, she and Mark, her husband, are still together, having survived their “rough patch” (definitely an understatement) so many years ago. And just as she thinks she’s in the clear, she runs into Helen – yes, Helen, the woman who symbolizes that most challenging period for Julia all those years ago.

This novel had a solid premise, excellent character development, and even good writing, but I believe was just too repetitive, too long. We understand that Julia had been traumatized by her childhood, with her mother having been harsh, cold, even emotionally abusive, leading to her having no self-esteem, no ability to trust anyone. When her husband, Mark, showed her kindness, she had trouble believing she deserved it. It was no surprise therefore, that when she met Helen, an older woman who showed her almost maternal warmth and friendship, Julia attached herself to her immediately. But I felt that the author might have spared some detail – that we did not need to hear about every encounter (which was repetitive). Moreover, there was not really a crescendo to the story. There was a crisis, yes, but it was not as dramatic as one might have hoped, considering all the detailed build-up.

I suppose this is another example of well-formulated characters in an interesting plot with decent potential but not ideal editing. Not a total loss, but you may find yourself counting the pages you have left, as I did periodically.

The Most Fun We Ever Had by Claire Lombardo

Marilyn and David have what appears to everyone to be a fairytale marriage: they met when they were young, fell madly in love, and their love has persisted over their years in that affectionate, singular way that few actually are blessed to experience. In truth, they have faced the many challenges that life brings with it, and they and their marriage are not perfect. Their 4 daughters are complicated and have been so throughout their lives, bringing stress and secrets and divisions that have threatened the very fabric of what defines their family. Could it be that Marilyn and David have created a bar that is set intimidatingly high?

In its own, unique way, this narrative is quite stunning. The author entangles the reader into the lives of each character, by swinging back and forth in time, switching focus from one dysfunctional family member to the other, keeping the plot moving forward inch by inch and only very gradually, very subtly delivering its plot punches. Each comes when you least expect it, dressed as a cruel, sisterly jab, a casual observation or a final word in a chapter. Each one leaving you almost breathless.

The relationship between the two eldest sisters – Wendy and Violet, Irish twins, as they are referred to – is at the heart of the deepest conflict here. They have a love/hate relationship and stab each other with venom when they are not depending on each other for their very existences. It is a sometimes heartless and sometimes heartfelt relationship that I am not sure I would be strong enough to survive. But it also shows the most base side of what two people can feel for one another, how family can at once anchor our souls and set us aflame.

I found this novel truly compelling. I suspect you will too.