The Great Gatsby

The Great Gatsby, by F. Scott Fitzgerald

Welcome back!  I just finished reading The Great Gatsby, by F. Scott Fitzgerald, which I had never read before.  My kids were more fortunate than I — they just finished reading this book in school and had the benefit of discussions with a  teacher who was trained to help appreciate all the symbolism and deeper meaning in the book.  I might have enjoyed the book more if I’d had the benefit of this.  As it was, I did not like really any of the characters in the book enough to really care about what happened to them, so it was challenging to get through it.

Just to review the story for those of you who haven’t thought about this book in awhile…

The narrator is a man who is a neighbor/tenant of Mr. Jay Gatsby.  He observes that Gatsby has frequent elaborate parties in his ostentatious mansion on Long Island.  What we come to learn is that Gatsby’s innate drive for wealth and notoriety is propelled to new heights by his love for a woman, Daisy, with whom he’d fallen in love 5 years prior. Daisy is now married to Tom, who is cheating on her, and Gatsby’s goal is to lure Daisy away from Tom. Without giving away the whole story to those of you who have not read the book (or those of you who want to read it again), suffice it to say there are complicated relationships and Gatsby comes to a bitter end.

There is a lot in this book about class relationships — essentially, about the callousness of the “haves” and the jealousy of the “have-not’s.”  What seems to matter less to everyone in the story is love, and the denial of the importance seems to bring everyone to their piece of the tragedy.  This idea, basically that money can’t buy happiness, is what I see as the take-home message for the reader, but it is almost painful to get to that end.

Unfortunately, each character is almost completely unlikeable.  The narrator is a kvetch and is fairly self-righteous in his telling of the story.  He frequently promotes his own virtuous honesty but is hypocritical in each of his relationships, appearing to like the other characters but secretly hating them all. Gatsby is probably the most sympathetic character, but he is distracted and uses people to his own ends.  Each of the other characters lacks depth and feels very flat, including Daisy.  In fact, it is frequently noted that everyone loves her, but it is very unclear — at least to me — why!  The conversation between characters is either trite — boring, even — or just outright blunt and vulgar.  Worse, though, there is also a lot of chatter about the other incidental characters that feels superfluous and drags out the story without giving it any more substance.

I understand that there is a remake of the movie in the works.  I pray they find what I could not in this book in order to make it worth seeing!

Fifty Shades of Grey – Posted 2012 on blogspot.com

Fifty Shades of Grey, by E.L. James

I thought I’d start out with a controversial one (or three)…  50 Shades of Grey!

Now, no one will freely admit that they’ve read it —  but we all have.  I have heard about people using their kids’ book socks to cover the book so that no one knows they’re reading it on the train, for example.  (Thank goodness for Kindles/Nooks, right?)  Everyone that I’ve asked about it, however, will admit it with some coaxing, and then won’t stop talking about it!

What is it about this book that we all find so unusual?  Is it the S & M stuff?  Is it the “love story” as one of my friends insists?  Is it the hero saving the damsel in distress, once again?  A Cinderella story, rags-to-riches dream that we all secretly share?  Or is it just that we’re all really horny and it’s too titillating to resist?

My guess is that it’s a combination of all of these.  But most importantly, I think it’s just plain hype!  With so much talk about the book, I figured I needed to read it just to be “in the know.”  Isn’t that why you read it also?

So what is my opinion?

Well, I have mixed opinions.  Yes, it’s a little fun to read.  Yes, there’s some suspense and some psychological intrigue.  Yes, it’s good that the female character actually has a libido too.  But yes, it’s horribly written.  Yes, the sex gets just a little repetitive (I get that they each smell good, ok?) And yes, it’s horribly unrealistic.

Mostly, though, I am sad that this may be another backslide for women.  Christian definitely steps in and saves Ana way too frequently and his money and power are all-consuming.  He is a controlling, conniving stalker and he manipulates any situation that he possibly can.  Has your boyfriend or husband bought the company you work for just so he can keep an eye on you??  Seriously??  Do women secretly want that?  Do we want someone to step in and grant us everything that we even casually wish for?  Do we want someone to solve all our problems?

I hope not.

I hope that we all look at this and feel a little sorry for Ana, who may seem to stick up for herself a bit (the end of the first book) but she really caves way too often.  I hope that we are stronger and have come further than that and appreciate when we take matters in our own hands and accomplish all on our own!  I hope that we have come beyond the Cinderella wishes of the beautiful dress and the prince who will save us from our evil stepmothers (why are the female characters always evil?).

I am not a radical feminist, but this aspect of the book did get me thinking about the way women are treated here.

Basically, you will have to read this book if you want to be a part of almost every conversation that is happening among friends these days…  so go for it!  And have your book sock ready!

 

Welcome to Kindread spirits!

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