Generva Meade has come from a family who assisted with the Underground Railroad and who is deeply entrenched in the Civil Rights movement, and she is currently assigned, her freshman year, to live with a conservative, religious black roommate at the prestigious Schuyler College where her family has donated founding money. She is very excited to get to know her roommate, Minette, and is sorely disappointed when she sees that her roommate does not reciprocate this enthusiasm. In fact, her roommate, she finds, is sullen, angry, and a fierce loner – scorning white and black girls in their dorm alike. Generva is undaunted, however, and pursues the friendship in spite of the coldness with which every attempt at kindness is greeted. When Minette becomes the target of hate pranks, Generva is her staunchest protector, even as Minette ignores her help. And as the year progresses, and Minette’s situation worsens, Generva is also confronting her own family distress, with her mother’s unraveling as her father’s past transgressions are catching up to him (as is the FBI). The final incident of Minette’s tragedy pushes Generva to face her own past as her family faces theirs.
I rarely listen to books on tape, but this was the result of a very long car ride – and I’m not sure if that tainted my view on this book or not. It is a difficult story, both emotionally and technically. There are many tangents, that are later significant but that are sometimes hard to follow. The story is also steeped in history, shameful and bleak, and had many references to the attempts on the part of many whites who tried to help, but who expect more appreciation than they are deserving of.
The character of Minette is a tragic one. She is trapped between the world of her conservative, Christian, independent and proud Black heritage and the more modern, socially-focused black girls in her dorm. She refused to socialize with the other black girls just because they were black like she was, but this left her alone and deeply depressed. She also refused any help with her studies, even as she was struggling academically, which further plummeted her self-esteem. As she became the target of racial incidents, it became more and more heartbreaking to see how alone she was. Generva could not comprehend why Minette would continue to repel her kindness. It is not entirely clear if Minette’s ignoring of Generva is from a resentment of white privilege or just from her own self-absorption from depression – or perhaps both.
This story had the potential to be excellent, however, it feels like it tries a bit too hard. The nagging earnestness on the part of Generva that is borne of her own family history and connections and her own wish to rid herself of that white guilt becomes cloying, At least this reader/listener shouted more than once, “Just leave her alone!” It is unclear why she would continue to try, when repelled so many times, when she would have had other friends in other groups. Why did she need to befriend only this one girl? Was it the challenge? Was it because she was black? Was it because her family was so disconnected from her as she was growing up and that gave her so little self-esteem? Was it her own sense of guilt from her family’s activities?
If you are psychologically inclined, you might be interested in reading this, as there is a lot of depth here. But if you are looking for a quick, entertaining, light read, this is not the book for you!